Bill Becker

The Blame Game

As I get ready to move to Denver, I wanted to give an update on my initiative. I’ve learned a lot. I learned that a lot of people are set in their ways, and no I am NOT talking about those experiencing homelessness.

Some individuals believe people are homeless because they choose to be or because they made bad decisions (drugs or alcohol). The amount of patience I’ve exhibited when dealing with these idiots should have resulted in some award. In short, I don’t waste my time trying to convince them how wrong they are and that they just believe that so as not to feel guilty for not helping.

I have also encountered those who are in the business of helping but are not open to new ideas. I try to be civil, but the fact is if you have been doing the same thing for 10, 20+ years and nothing has changed, maybe it’s time for a new approach.

The good news is there are some great success stories that I wanted to share! Hennepin County in Minnesota has a tremendous story to tell. Their “person centered approach” is what I have been preaching. Don’t get overwhelmed by the number of people that are on the street. Focus on one person and get them everything they need.

Tulsa Day Center has a similar program that’s highlighted in this video. Tulsa, like many outreach teams often includes people who were previously on the street themselves. Their stories and how they were able to overcome their personal journey an important part of giving someone hope. And hope is really the key to making sure someone doesn’t ever give up.

So what can you do to help? Every Friday I post a simple idea on all my social media accounts…

My weekly reminder that an easy way to help those experiencing homelessness is stop by a garage sale tomorrow after lunch and offer to take any remaining clothing items for $20-30.

The seller doesn’t want to bring those back into their homes and you can get a bunch of much needed clothing items to drop off you local homeless shelter.

In Tulsa it’s the Tulsa Day Center:
415 W Archer St, Tulsa, OK 74103
Phone: (918) 583-5588

Think of a small way you could help the people in your town. Promote it, consistently and be part of the solution instead of the part of the problem.